here but... muted

I'm in one of those "if it's not one thing it's another..." phases.

• A person I knew in the SCA passed away over the weekend--- cancer, pneumonia, diabetes complications. He was older than me and a wonderful person. I went to the funeral yesterday. The wake the night before was on what would have been his birthday.
• My beloved and over-talented fiance looses his job yesterday because he can't give them 40 hours a week and some idiot manager would rather lose all the work he *can* do because he can't be there 40 hrs a week. (He could commit to 30 hours a week, which is more than normal part-time.)
• I get home looking forward to engaging in some D2 or Puzzle Pirate stress relief, and my home computer won't even turn on. So I'm going up this weekend to visit to my Oni who put the thing together in the first place for the hardware trouble shooting (I'm more of a software tech). Mind you, the money I had for any trip like this was used Wednesday/Yesterday for going to the wake and funeral of the person in the first bullet.
• And for the straw that was used to beat the dead camel- the outside door nearest to my desk is busted and won't unlock/open from the outside. Again. This started back on Monday. So I ended up getting logged into my phone late 3 times this week because I had to go around the building to get in. And I was out one day this week. So that makes 3 out of the 4 days I was here.